Kalmar likitanci ta 'Dyspareunia' ta na nufin zafi ko raɗaɗi ko ciwo a al'aurar mata yayin da ake daf da fara jima'i ko a lokacin da akeyi ko bayan an gama yin jima'i dasu. Mace za ta iya jin raɗaɗi ko ciwo yayin jima'i a cikin farji ko a wajen sa, ko akan mara (mahaifa) ko a ƙashin ƙugu.
Abubuwa dayawa kamar rashin sabawa da jima'i, rashin ni'ima, yanayin rashin lafiya ko wasu cututtuka ne ke haifar da jima'i mai raÉ—aÉ—i, kuma mafi yawanci ana magance wannan matsalar ne ta hanyar gano ainihin abin da ke haifar da ciwon.
A likitanci, jin zafi yayin jima'i an kasa shi gida biyu kamar haka:
- Jin zafi ko ciwo yayin fara jima'i
- Jin zafi ko ciwo a lokacin da ake yin jima'i
Jin zafi yayin fara jima'i
Wannan shi ne jin zafin da mace ke yi a al'aura yayin fara jima'i, a lokacin da namiji yake neman shigar da azzakarinsa a cikin farji. A likitanci ana kiran wannan irin jin zafi yayin shigar azzakari a cikin farji da 'Superficial Dyspareunia '.
Irin wannan jin zafi shi ne mafi akasari, kuma kusan ko wace mace za ta iya samun shi a wani lokaci na rayuwar ta na jima'i, musamman mata masu ƙananan shekaru da kuma sabbin fara jima'i.
Haka kuma, irin wannan jin zafi yayin jima'i ana jin sa ne a bakin kofar farji da kuma wajensa ba a jinsa ta chan ciki sosai ko a cikin mara.
Me Ke Kawo Jin Zafi Yayin Fara Jima'i
Mafi yawancin abubuwan da ke kawo jin zafi yayin fara jima'i ba su da alaka da wata cuta ko wani rashin lafiya, kuma ba abubuwa ne masu bukatar magani ba. Abubuwan da likitoci suka ayyana da kawo wannan irin jin zafi yayin jima'i su ne:
1. Jima'in farko ga budurwa - Virginity loss
Wannan zafin ciwo ne na gama gari, ko wace mace tana samun sa, sai dai na wasu yafi na wasu. Jima'in farko baya da dadi ga mace, saboda jima'i ne da zai fara buÉ—e mata kofar farji. Zafin zai cigaba da ragewa sannu-sannu har mace ta saba.
2. Rashin wasa da mace kamin fara jima'i - Poor foreplay
Wannan shi ne babban abinda ake alaƙanta wa da wannan matsalar ta jin zafi yayin jima'i. Ya kamata ma'aurata su gane cewa, ita mace kamin jikin ta ya shirya wa yin jima'i dole ne sai an motsa mata da sha'awa.
A lokacin da sha'awar mace ta motsa a lokacin ne kadai za ta iya samar da sinadarai da ruwan da zai dararo daga mahaifar ta domin samar da ni'ima a cikin farjin ta, sauƙaƙa shigar azzakarin namiji a cikin farji da kuma inganta jin dadin jima'i.
Rashin samar da wannan ni'ima a cikin farji yana sanya wahalar shiga azzakari a cikin farji da kuma haifar da ciwo da zafi yayin fara jima'i ba ga mace kadai ba har da ma namiji.
An so na namiji yayi wasa da mace tare da luguiguita ta kamar na minti goma zuwa minti goma sha biyar kamin yayi kokarin shigar da azzakarinsa a cikin farjin ta.
Wannan shi ne zai ba jikin mace damar da zai shirya wa yin jima'i sannan ya samar da isasshen ni'ima.
3. Rashin ni'ima - Vaginal Dryness
Akwai wasu mata, duk yadda sha'awar su ta motsa, duk yadda namiji yayi wasa da su, farjin su baya samar da isasshen ni'imar da za ta sa suji dadin jima'i. Wasu matan haka Allah ya halicce su, wasu kuma cututtuka ne ke sa farjin su bushewa, kamar cutar sanyin mara.
4. Samun rauni ga al'aura - Genital trauma
Wannan shi ma wani abu ne da ke kawo jin zafi yayin fara jima'i. Jin rauni a al'aurar mace yayin haihuwa, ko aikin tiyatar asibiti, ko wasu al'adu na gargajiya kamar kaciyar mata, yankan gishiri ko yankan gurya duk suna kawo jin ciwo yayin fara yin jima'i, watarana ma su hanawa mace jin dadin rayuwar jima'i baki daya.
5. Cututtukan al'aura - Genital Infections
Wasu cututtukan al'aura da kuma fatar al'aura kamar irin su kurajen gaba, ƙazuwa kwarkwatar gaba, da dai sauransu, suna kawo ciwo yayin fara yin jima'i.
6. Ƙanƙamewar tsokokin farji - Vaginismus
Wannan wani al'amari ne da wasu mata ke samu a lokacin da zasu fara jima'i, tsokokin farjin su zasu ƙanƙame gaba daya su rufe kofar farji sosai ta yadda namiji ba zai iya shigar su ba, idan ma ya samu shiga kamin al'amarin ya faru, ko kuma yana ciki abin ya faru, to ba zai iya fita da kansa ba har sai abin ya lafa. Wannan yafi faruwa a lokacin da mace ke cikin tsoro, ko shakka ko kuma bata son yin jima'in, sannan ba ko wace mace ke samun irin wannan al'amari ba.
Wannan ƙanƙamewar tsokokin farji (Vaginismus) al'amari ne mai tsananin ciwo ga mace har da namiji. Idan kun taba jin wani labari kamar almara ana cewa wasu suna jima'i sun laƙe sun kasa fita da juna, toh ba almara bace, wannan yana faruwa idan vaginismus ya faru a lokacin da namiji ya riga ya shigar da azzakarinsa a cikin farji.
A lura cewa, mace bata iya haifar da vaginismus da kanta, hasali ma bata da wani iko da faruwar sa, vaginismus yana cikin abubuwan da bature ke kira involuntary actions. Wannan shi yasa idan ya faru ko mace taso ta sake namiji ya fitar da azzakarinsa ba za ta iya ba. Shi kuma namiji, ciwo ba zai bar sa ya ja azzakarinsa da ƙarfi domin ya kubuce ba. Haka zasu tsaya sai yadda hali yayi, har sai abin ya lafa.
Jin zafi a lokacin da ake yin jima'i
Shi kuma wannan jin zafi yayin jima'i kashi na biyu yana faruwa ne bayan an fara yin jima'i, ma'ana, namiji ya riga ya sanya azzakarinsa a cikin farji ba tare da wani zafi ko raÉ—aÉ—i ba. Amma a lokacin da namiji yake bakin aiki, sai mace ta fara jin ciwo, raÉ—aÉ—i ko kuma mummunan zafi a chan cikin farjin ta, ko a cikin marar ta ko ma a bayan kunkuminta. Ana kiran wannan irin jin zafi yayin jima'i da "Deep Dyspareunia" a likitanci.
Me Ke Kawo Jin Zafi a Lokacin da Ake Yin Jima'i
Irin wannan jin zafi wanda ke faruwa a lokacin da aka riga aka fara yin jima'i, shi ne mafi akasari ke da alaƙa da cututtuka da kuma raunin da aka ji ga al'aura. Abubuwan da ke kawo shi sun haɗa da:
1. Soka azzakari da zurfi sosai a cikin farji: A lokacin da azzakarin namiji ya shiga sosai a cikin farji har ya kai ƙoli to zai fara zuzar bakin mahaifa da kuma bangon farji na ciki a yayin jima'i. Wannan yakan sanya mata jin zafi sosai.
2. Cutar Sanyin Mata - Pelvic inflammatory disease: Cutar sanyin mata cuta ce da ke haifar da zubar wani mummunan ruwa mai wari da yauqi daga gaban mace, haka kuma tana haifar da ciwon mara da kuma jin zafi bayan fara yin jima'i.
3. Cutar endometriosis: Endometriosis wata cuta ce da ke faruwa sakamakon samun tantanin halittun bangon mahaifa na ciki, a wani gurin da ba bangon ba. Idan aka samu wadannan tantanin halittun a cikin kunkumi ko mara suna haifar da ciwo a lokacin jima'i.
4. Jin rauni a al'aura - Genital trauma: Munyi bayanin wannan a sama.
5. Matan da aka yiwa fyade; Wasu mata idan aka yi musu fyade da farko, toh har abada ba za su kara sha'awar jima'i ba.
6. Matan da suka daina yin al'ada - Postmenopausal women: Matan da suka yi tsufan da ya kai su daina yin jinin al'ada sukan samu raguwar sinadaran jima'i na mata da ake kira estrogen da progesterone. Hakan yakan sa sha'awar su ta ragu, ni'imar su ta É—auke ko ma farjin su ya bushe. Wannan yana hana su jin dadin jima'i baki daya.
7. Sauran cututtuka masu iya kawo rashin jindadi ga mata yayin jima'i sun hada da; Ƙarin mahaifa, cutar adenomyosis, cutar irritable bowel syndrome, da dai sauransu.
Yadda Ake Maganin Jin Zafi Yayin Jima'i
Maganin jin zafi yayin jima'i ya danganta da abin da ya kawo shi kamar yadda mukayi bayani a sama. Amma zamu zaƙulo hanyoyin gama gari da ake bi domin maganin wannan jin zafi yayin jima'i a taƙaice.
1. Yin jima'i sannu a hankali ba tare da hauka ba, musamman idan mace budurwa ce, ko kuma kwanciyar aure ta farko tsakanin ango da amarya. Haka kuma ba'a so namiji ya kama soka azzakarinsa da karfi sosai har yadda zai kama zuzar bakin mahaifa. Koda dole sai anyi shige da fice da karfi toh kar a bari ya kai ga bakin mahaifa.
2. Maza su daina amfani da maganin karfin maza. Magungunan karfin maza na gargajiya da na bature suna ɗaya daga cikin abubuwan da ke sa maza suyi ta jima'i na ƙarfi har su sanya mata jindadin jima'i su koma jin zafi da ciwo.
3. Yin wasa da mace, tare da luguiguita ta da kuma shafata na akalla minti goma zuwa sha biyar kamin a fara sanya azzakari a cikin farjin ta. Wannan shi ne zai motsa mata sha'awa har ta samar da ni'ima.
4. Amfani da man shafawa ko kirim kamin sanya azzakari a cikin farji, wannan hanyar ana amfani da ita ga mata marasa ni'ima, budurwa a yayin jima'in farko har sai ta saba da kuma matan da suka daina yin al'ada. Wannan man shafi yakan samar da wata gagarumar ni'ima da santsi domin inganta jin dadin jima'i. Akwai man shafawa da kirim na musamman da ake amfani dasu, kamar irin su, Night secret, KY jelly da Xylocain gel.
5. Magance cututtuka masu kawo jin zafi yayin jima'i kamar irin su cutar sanyin mara da dai sauransu.
6. Jiyyar raunuka da aka samu a al'aura ta hanyar haihuwa ko wani abu. Musamman dinkin da ake yiwa mata bayan sun samu ƙari a wajen haihuwa. Ana so mace rika yin gashi da ruwan zafi kuma ta yi jiyyar wurin da kyau har sai ya warke sarai kamin ta fara jima'i.
7. Kai matan da akayi yiwa fyade gurin likitocin ƙwaƙwalwa domin su basu shawarwari akan hanyoyin da zasu bi domin su tafiyar da rayuwar su ta jima'i.
Kammalawa
A nan mukazi karshen wannan rubutu, muna fatar kun amfana, idan mai karatu yana da wata tambaya to ya hanzarta rubuto mana a cikin akwatin sharhi da ke kasa. Insha Allah zamu karba masa bada dadewa ba.
Nassoshi
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